For my own benifit

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“Just to play devil’s advocate,” adds Kyan, “even if we are embracing a stereotype that gay guys are effeminate or whatever, so what? I’m all for guys being butch and guys being men. I identify with that and appreciate that. But if I’m going to stab my gay brother in the back who isn’t butch and who maybe acts a little bit more effeminate, what good is that? A gay guy can be effeminate. It’s OK. If somebody has a problem with it, they need to lighten up, and they need to open up their mind.”

http://edition.cnn.com/ELECTION/2004/